Your Compass: Build-a-Map for Life & Relationships
Clarity and Confidence to Navigate Conversations, Decisions, and Connections
When Autopilot Makes Life and Relationships Hard
Life and relationships—business, personal, or intrapersonal—can go off course, especially when stress or busyness takes over. Often, people try to fix them with awkward actions, heavy conversations, or overcorrections—and end up going in circles.
When those efforts backfire, it’s natural to freeze, not wanting to make matters worse.
The relationship isn’t broken; it’s just undefined.
In my work coaching executives and facilitating team and stakeholder meetings, I’ve found that resilience begins with clarity at the core — the kind Your Compass helps create.
Things Feel Harder Than They Should...Â
Tense conversations — that feel more effortful or uncomfortable than they used to be
Walking on eggshells — or feeling like you’re the only one trying
Risky decisions — uncertainty makes every choice feel high-stakes
Something seems off — there’s a gap you can sense but can’t quite name
They Don't Have To Stay That Way
Your Compass is a virtual guided conversation that helps you create the relationship—or personal framework—you actually want. Instead of trying to fit into someone else’s space—or live up to unspoken expectations—you get to design it intentionally.
The result is a clear, usable reference you can return to again and again. You’ll also leave with language and skills to use this understanding to reduce decision-fatigue and resolve conflict, so outcomes are sustainable, not cyclical.
Clarity Brings Relief
Your Compass creates clarity where there has been assumption—and relief where there has been strain.
Together, you’ll gain:
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Clarity — a conscious or collaborative target that reduces guesswork and misinterpretation
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Confidence — in conversations and decisions, because what matters and how to proceed are more clear
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Connection — practical skills for using your compass in real conversations, so outcomes are more consistent and sustainable
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Relief — from navigating unspoken expectations, misinterpretations, or uncertainty alone
Think of it as a high-level cheat sheet for the relationship—or internal framework—something you can use proactively and return to when things become noisy, emotional, or unclear.
Instead of trying to fit in or live up to undefined expectations, define them intentionally.
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What This Is—and What It Isn’t
This is:
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An informal, structured conversation facilitated by a neutral professional
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A way to gather perspective without assigning blame
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An opportunity to intentionally design how you relate, decide, communicate, and move forward
- A surprisingly engaging way to discover more about yourself, the other person (if applicable), and the relationship itself
This is not:
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Arbitration, where someone else makes decisions for you
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Formal mediation focused on resolving disputes
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Therapy or a process centered on excavating the past
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A division of tasks or an assignment of fault
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A process intended to convince someone to stay. If a participant decides not to continue the conversation or the relationship, the process stops.
Your Compass Is For:
- Business partners navigating growth, stress, or change
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Couples at any stage—from early commitment to long-standing partnership
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Individuals seeking a clear personal framework for decisions, priorities, and boundaries
It’s especially helpful when people care deeply—but feel stretched, overloaded, or caught reacting instead of choosing intentionally.
No prior experience or special skills are required—just a desire for clarity and more ease in how you relate, decide, and move forward.
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This is a complete system for navigating life and relationships with clarity, confidence, and ease. It includes:
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A “map” — a concise, written reference we create together. It captures your values, priorities, and guiding principles, providing a clear reference for decisions and conversations. You can print it, save it, or keep it handy to stay oriented and reduce detours caused by default habits or guesswork.
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Clear directions — skill training and practical tools for using the map in real conversations and decisions, even in stressful moments. These directions teach you how to apply your map so it sticks and works in real life.
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“GPS” — two weeks of email or Voxer support as you begin to apply the compass in everyday decisions and conversations. Guidance is there when you need it, without waiting or overthinking.
People often wish they had experienced this sooner — the clarity and practical tools provide relief, confidence, and perspective, revealing what’s been missing and opening a whole new way of understanding and navigating your life. In fact, I sometimes use elements of this process when mediating workplace disputes — it consistently shifts the dynamics for the better.
FAQ's
What does this have to do with your work with teams?
How would this apply to individuals?
Is this a Valentine’s Day deal?
Is this a “marriage on the rocks” program?
How long will it take?
Will this be the only time we need to do this?
What if I have other questions (or want a gift certificate)?
Can this work for teams?
Your Compass is launching soon.
While it has been quietly included in select packages, I’m putting the finishing touches on a few backroom tasks so it can be made available as a standalone offer.
I expect it to be available by January 9, 2026.
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